April is Just Around the Corner! 🦋

Dear CCP Families,

Can you believe that April begins next week? No fooling! 😉 New month - fresh start! Think of all the possibilities of love, grace, and connections! Enjoy your spring break! March 30 - April 6. We will see you back on Tuesday, April 7th.

SUMMER CAMP - Please remember to register your Ladybug, Duck, or Whale for summer camp. There are just 3 spaces left. We would like to know who is coming by the end of March so we can order supplies.

A big THANK YOU to all who ate a burger at Al’s last week! Every $5 burger eaten gave Christ Church Preschool $5. Total raised was $700! Since we depend on our fundraisers to supplement our budget, this last fundraising effort really helped us. Thank you to Carolyn Ziemer for all of the great ideas, running around town (literally), and love she has for CCP. Carolyn, you are amazing!

TUITION - Tuition is due on April 1. Since we are on Spring Break, we will extend the deadline until April 9th at 9:00am. Please make sure your payment is here by then, so Jen only has to make one trip to the bank

Coming Soon…

  • March 29 - Palm/Passion Sunday Cantata at 9 & 11 am in the Sanctuary.

  • March 29 - Easter Egg Hunt & Cookout! 4pm in the lower parking lot, cookout to follow at 5pm.

  • April 5 - 7am Easter Sunrise Service on the Southern Village Green. 9am Acoustic Easter Service in the Sanctuary. 10am Easter on the Green Service (on the Southern Village Green), and 11am Traditional Easter Service in the Sanctuary.

  • March 30 - April 6 - Spring Break!

  • PAC MEETING - April 13 on Zoom at 7:30pm

  • April 15 & 16 - Spring Picture Days. We will have both individual and class photos taken. Ducks, M/W/F Ladybugs, and M/W Frogs picture day will be April 15. Whales/ T/Th Ladybugs, and T/Th Frogs will be on April 16.

  • April 22 & 23 - 🎼 Spring Music Programs right after drop-off in Ascension Hall. MW(F) classes and Whales will sing on Wednesday. T/TH classes and Ducks will sing on Thursday. There will be refreshments for adults. Plan on about 20-30 minutes

From Easy to Love, Difficult to Discipline, p. 105 - “Anxious or overwhelmed children respond better to assertive commands than to choices. Think about a time when you felt overwhelmed. The last thing you wanted to do was make a decision. At such times, clear commands are soothing.” Even for adults, this is true. Soon after a close family member passed, there was a day when my husband said, “Where do you want to eat?” I felt the tears welling up. I couldn’t even make a simple choice of a restaurant. I said, “Please just choose a place for me. I can’t make a choice right now.” At that moment, it felt good to have my husband choose for me. I was grateful.

Enjoy your Spring Break! For Friday students, we will see you tomorrow and then we will see you back at school on Tuesday, April 7th.

Peace,

Shelly




BONUS TIDBITS: Allow your kids to fail. You will hate it, but it’s so important.

Feeling Appreciated and Loved!

Dear CCP Families,


A huge thank you for all the sweet gestures, gifts, and for the delicious lunch during CCP Teacher Appreciation Week…We are so grateful! Your beautiful words of affirmation and generous gifts touched my heart (I may have cried in the office while reading them). Thank you so very much!

CCP SCHOOL SPIRIT - Let’s have lunch or dinner at AL’s BURGERS, March 18-22! Al's Burgers is excited to support our school this spring. Instead of a "Spirit Night," we are having a "Spirit Week" fundraising opportunity. From 3/18-3/22, a customer can bring in a coupon, donate $5 to the school, and receive a "free" burger. Use the coupons that were in the cubbies on Monday/Tuesday of last week. Thanks for your support!


SUMMER CAMP - Please remember to register your Ladybug, Duck, or Whale for summer camp. There are just 4 spaces left. We would like to know who is coming by the end of March so we can order supplies.

SHOES - The safest shoes for preschool are sneakers. If you choose sandals, please choose the ones with protection over the toes and rubber soles. Flip flops are not a good choice for preschool. Please encourage your child to wear safe shoes at preschool.

Coming Soon…

  • March 29 - Palm/Passion Sunday Cantata at 9 & 11 am in the Sanctuary.

  • March 29 - Easter Egg Hunt & Cookout! 4pm in the lower parking lot, cookout to follow at 5pm.

  • April 5 - 7am Easter Sunrise Service on the Southern Village Green. 9am Acoustic Easter Service in the Sanctuary. 10am Easter on the Green Service (on the Southern Village Green), and 11am Traditional Easter Service in the Sanctuary.

  • March 30 - April 6 - Spring Break!

  • April 15 & 16 - Spring picture days. We will have both individual and class photos taken. Ducks, M/W/F Ladybugs, and M/W Frogs picture day will be April 15. Whales/ T/Th Ladybugs, and T/Th Frogs will be on April 16.

  • April 22 & 23 - 🎼 Spring Music Programs right after drop-off in Ascension Hall. MW(F) classes and Whales will sing on Wednesday. T/TH classes and Ducks will sing on Thursday. There will be refreshments for adults. Plan on about 20-30 minutes

  • Lilian Katz, writing in the book Developing People (part of the Art of Leadership series), notes:
    "We must come to see that the welfare of our children and grandchildren is intimately linked to the welfare of all other people’s children. After all, when one of our children needs life-changing surgery, someone else’s child will perform it. If one of our children is threatened or harmed by violence, someone else’s child will be responsible for the violent act. The good life for our own children can only be secured if a good life is also secured for all other people’s children. Where are other people’s children right now? Are they having wholesome, caring, and appropriate experiences? The person who will be our president 60 years from now may be in someone’s three-year-old class today. I hope she’s having a good experience! To be concerned about other people’s children is not just a practical matter — it is a moral and ethical one."

And from Dr. Becky Bailey…..Whoever you believe is in charge of your feelings, you have placed in charge of you. Putting a 3-year-old in charge of your feelings is pretty scary! Take back your power with the language of responsibility: "I'm going to ____" (instead of, "Don't make me _____.")


Peace,

Shelly

BONUS TIDBITS: Tell your partner you love them every night before falling asleep. Someday you’ll find the other side of the bed empty and wish you could.

C'mon Spring!

Hello CCP Families,

We’re already almost halfway into March! How did that happen so quickly? With spring around the corner, maybe send your small humans in with layers of clothing. We go outside unless it’s raining hard and thundering around here 😀. Below is a handy guide to know where we are…

Cant’t wait for the pollening…

CONFERENCES - Thank you for spending time with your child’s teachers this week. I hope you enjoyed seeing what your child has accomplished this year and learning how they function in a group setting. It is often different from what you may see at home!

TEACHER APPRECIATION WEEK - March 16th - 20 is our teacher appreciation week. Be watching for an email from your class parent rep for the ways we will make our teachers feel the love ❤️! We want our teachers to know that their hard work, love, and sometimes sleepless nights are seen. Some may want to participate in the group appreciation or may want to do something individually. It takes a village to raise a child and it takes the same village to praise the teacher!

CCP SCHOOL SPIRIT - Let’s have lunch or dinner at AL’s BURGERS, March 18-22! Al's Burgers is excited to support our school this spring. Instead of a "Spirit Night," they are proposing a "Spirit Week" fundraising opportunity. From 3/18-3/22, a customer can bring in a coupon, donate $5 to the school, and receive a "free" burger. The coupons will be in the cubbies on Monday/Tuesday of next week (one per order). Thanks for your support!

SUMMER CAMP - Please remember to register your Ladybug, Duck, or Whale for summer camp. There are just 6 spaces left. We would like to know who is coming by the end of March so we can order supplies.

NEXT YEAR - We have room for 3 students in both of the M/W & T/Th Frogs classes and for 1 student in our 4s class. If you know of friends or neighbors who may enjoy becoming part of the CCP family, please pass this along! Thanks.

March 16 - The CCP PAC will meet on Zoom on Monday, March 16 at 7:30pm. We will present a slate for 26-27 and approve the proposed 26-27 calendar that was sent to PAC members this week. If you would be interested in serving on next year’s PAC, let me or Ashton Blue know and we will plug you in.

  • March 29 - Palm/Passion Sunday Cantata at 9 & 11 am in the Sanctuary.

  • March 29 - Easter Egg Hunt & Cookout! 4pm in the lower parking lot, cookout to follow at 5pm.

  • April 5 - 7am Easter Sunrise Service on the Southern Village Green. 9am Acoustic Easter Service in the Sanctuary. 10am Easter on the Green Service (on the Southern Village Green), and 11am Traditional Easter Service in the Sanctuary.

  • March 30 - April 6 - Spring Break!

  • April 15 & 16 - Spring picture days. We will have both individual and class photos taken. Ducks, M/W/F Ladybugs, and M/W Frogs picture day will be April 15. Whales/ T/Th Ladybugs, and T/Th Frogs will be on April 16.

  • April 22 & 23 - 🎼 Casual music programs in the fellowship hall. Shortly after drop-off on this Wed & Thurs, your child will sing a few songs with their class & Ms. Vicki for an audience of parents and special loved ones in Ascension Hall. So, if your child has music on Wed, then they will sing on Wed. If their music class is on Thurs, then they will sing on Thurs) More details to come…

CONSCIOUS DISCIPLINE MOMENT - Heads up!  Here comes a tiny, but IMPORTANT distinction...... It is critical that you ask, "How do you feel?" instead of saying, "How would that make you feel."  Self-regulation requires children to own their feelings.  Attributing the cause of their feelings to outside situations or people by using "make you" language yields blame and derails the process. ~from Dr. Bailey's Feeling Buddies Curriculum, p. 7


Peace,

Shelly


BONUS TIDBITS: Dance at weddings until your feet are sore.

Seeking patterns

Dear CCP Family,

    Welcome March! Thanks to all of you who came for Preschool Sunday! The children sang beautifully and we appreciated your presence very much. The church family LOVED seeing the children sing!

SUMMER CAMP - Please remember to register your Ladybug, Duck, or Whale for summer camp. There are just 7 spaces left. We would like to know who is coming by the end of March so we can order supplies.

CONFERENCES - On March 11 & 12 your teachers will offer time to meet with you for a conference. These conferences are a time to discuss your child’s strengths and areas we are working to grow. Please plan your conference with a friend and watch each other’s children on the CCP playgrounds. We are open during fall conferences, but closed during spring conferences, so both teachers can meet with you.

NEXT YEAR - We have room for 3 students in both of the M/W & T/Th Frogs classes. If you know of friends or neighbors who may enjoy becoming part of the CCP family, please pass this along! Thanks.

COMING SOON…

  • March 11 & 12 - Conferences - School is closed for spring conferences, but feel free to plan with a friend to watch each others’ children on the playground during your conferences.

  • March 16 - The CCP PAC will meet on Zoom on Monday, March 16 at 7:30pm. We will present a slate for 26-27 and approve the proposed 26-27 calendar that will be sent by email tomorrow. Watch for the Zoom link to arrive in your email next week.

  • March 30 - April 6 - Spring Break!

  • April 22 & 23 - 🎼 Casual music programs in the fellowship hall. Shortly after drop-off on this Wed & Thurs, your child will sing a few songs with their class & Ms. Vicki for an audience of parents and special loved ones in Ascension Hall. So, if your child has music on Wed, then they will sing on Wed. If their music class is on Thurs, then they will sing on Thurs) More details to come…

  • April 15 & 16 - Spring picture days. We will have both individual and class photos done. Ducks, M/W/F Ladybugs, and M/W Frogs picture day will be April 15. Whales/ T/Th Ladybugs, and T/Th Frogs will be on April 16.

HELPFUL HINT FROM DR. BAILEY - “Discipline comes from the word ‘disciple,’ which is rooted in the Latin word that means to teach. Opportunities for discipline occur during moments of conflict between the needs and wants of the parties involved. How we resolve these moments teaches our children how to resolve conflicts for the rest of their lives.” (from Dr. Bailey’s I LOVE YOU RITUALS, p. 25)

     AND ONE MORE EXCELLENT HINT - “The brain is pattern-seeking. The more consistent your routines, the easier it is for the brain to pick up the pattern. If there is a consistent routine, the brain picks up the pattern, the child feels safe, the his neurological resources can be used for learning and exploration.” (from ConsciousDiscipline.com)

If you have “old fashioned” clocks (I still have one in my car, pray for me 😏) at home, be sure to spring forward one hour when you go to bed this Saturday night 3/7! Daylight Savings Time begins on Sunday morning.


Peace,

Shelly

BONUS TIDBITS: You may win the argument, but if you lose the friend, what was the point?

Preschool Sunday!

Dear CCP Families,

PRESCHOOL SUNDAY - This coming Sunday, 3/1, is Preschool Sunday at Christ Church. PLEASE bring your child to sing 🎵! We need every voice! Meet us in the Disciple Room (there will be signs) at 8:40am to “warm up” our voices. We will sing at the 9:00 🕘 service. Afterward, Pastor Lee will lead the children out of the sanctuary during our last song to Ascension Hall where they will have some fun activities planned. Ladybugs and Frogs will head down to the Frog room to enjoy time together. The service lasts an hour or less. If you have other obligations, you may slip out after the children sing, but we hope you will stay to worship, celebrate, and partake in some yummy treats afterward. We would like to really pack the sanctuary with preschool families!! (Any donations marked CCP from this Sunday will go toward our scholarship fund 😄)

What could be better than practicing for Preschool Sunday in our jammies?

Pancakes and Pajamas finally happened! After two false starts we finally made it out of the starting blocks. Smiling, sticky, sweet faces filled Ascension Hall while pancakes and fruit filled everyone’s belly. I was shocked to see so many kiddos put away so many pancakes! Thank you to all who helped to make this such a great memory for our children, teachers, and church staff. You are truly the best!

CAMP - We still have spaces for your Ladybug, Duck or Whale to join our camp crew! The application was in your cubby last week, but if you need another one, please ask (there are also some above the payment box in the hallway). First come, first served. We will need all campers to be signed up by the end of March so we can order the correct number of supplies.

CONFERENCES - Thanks for signing up for a conference with your child’s teachers on March 11 & 12. Each year preschool is open for fall conferences and closed for spring conferences. (It is very difficult to get enough substitutes to cover all the classes in the spring.) Feel free to team up with a friend and use our playground to watch each other’s children while one parent goes in to conference.

TUITION - Please remember that your March tuition payment is due March 1 (It’s considered late after March 5, so you have a few days of grace.) Thanks for paying your fees on time.

COMING SOON…

  • March 11 & 12 - Conferences - School is closed for spring conferences, but feel free to plan with a friend to watch each others’ children on the playground during your conferences.

  • March 30 - April 6 - Spring Break!

  • April 22 & 23 - 🎼 Casual music programs in the fellowship hall. Shortly after drop-off on this Wed & Thurs, your child will sing a few songs with their class & Ms. Vicki for an audience of parents and special loved ones in Ascension Hall. So, if your child has music on Wed, then they will sing on Wed. If their music class is on Thurs, then they will sing on Thurs) More details to come…

  • April 15 & 16 - Spring picture days. We will have both individual and class photos done. Ducks, M/W/F Ladybugs, and M/W Frogs picture day will be April 15. Whales/ T/Th Ladybugs, and T/Th Frogs will be on April 16.

A CONSCIOUS DISCIPLINE MOMENT - From Dr. Becky Bailey's Managing Emotional Mayhem, p. 41..."If a child signals sadness, anger or embarrassment, an attuned adult can pick up on this communication and coach the child through her discomfort to an integrated state.  The child will learn emotions are a bridge between problem and solution, reducing the likelihood of a reactive or impulsive response."

        Emotions serve a vital purpose!  We need to feel them, accept them, and then they will dissipate.  They are the bridge between problem and solution.  Here's the secret....we don't want to get stuck on the feelings bridge, hanging on to our suffering and rehashing our problem.  Instead we want to identify and name the feeling.  Then relax and re-frame the problem.  Then we can more easily choose a solution!

Can you believe that March begins on Sunday?? We hope to see you this Sunday!

Peace,

Shelly

BONUS TIDBITS: Stop trying to change people who don’t want to be changed.

Assertiveness

Dear CCP Families,

As I consider all the things going on in our world today, I am especially grateful for our preschool teachers who spend much time teaching our students peaceful ways to handle conflict and techniques to calm their bodies when they are upset. Self-regulation and an assertive voice are two of the most important things we teach. These skills will help your children to be prepared to manage what life throws at them now and in the future! Read the Conscious Discipline moment at the bottom for more on Assertive Voice.

CONFERENCES - Watch for your teacher’s sign-up genius in a blog post or email, so you can sign up for a convenient time for a conference. Since school is closed for spring conferences, please plan with another parent to watch each other’s children on our playgrounds during conferences.

TUITION - Please remember that your March tuition payment is due March 1 (It’s considered late after March 5, so you have a few days of grace.) Thanks for paying your fees on time.

SUPPLY/EQUIPMENT FEES FOR 26-27 - Your fees were due last Friday, 2/13. Thank you to those who paid on time. If you still have not paid the fees, please let us know asap if your child will not be attending CCP next year, as we have others on our waiting list that would like a spot here. Paying these fees holds your child’s spot in the class they were placed in.

YOU’RE INVITED! - Come experience an evening of powerful Gospel music from the Bethune-Cookman University Inspirational Gospel Choir on Wednesday, March 4th at 7:00 p.m. in the Christ UMC Sanctuary! This gifted group of students travels from Florida to spread God’s word in song and tell the story of founder Dr. Mary McLeod Bethune. Come be encouraged, inspired, and reminded of the power of worship shared together. All are welcome! In lieu of admission, a love offering will be accepted for the choir.

SUMMER CAMP - Camp applications for Ladybugs, Ducks, and Whales were in your cubbies this week. We have spots for 28-30 campers with 4 teachers. Camp is June 2-5 from 9:00-1:00. Bring your completed application and fee to the preschool office.


Coming soon….

  • February 25 & 26 - Pancakes and Pajamas (finally!). Send your child in their jammies for their day. Ducks, M/W/F Ladybugs, & M/W Frogs on Wednesday. Whales, T/Th Ladybugs, & T/Th Frogs on Thursday. The children will eat pancakes at 10:00am so that will be their snack. Please send their water bottles and lunch if it’s their Lunch Bunch day.

  • March 1 - Please plan to come to Christ Church on Sunday, March 1 at 8:45 for Preschool Sunday. Your children will sing some special songs near the beginning of the 9:00 worship service and we will celebrate the CUMC Preschool Ministry. The service lasts about an hour. There is a nursery provided in the 2’s classroom for very young children. I’ll send more details, but for now, please mark your calendar!!

  • March 11 & 12 - Conferences - School is closed for spring conferences, but feel free to plan with a friend to watch each others’ children on the playground during your conferences.

  • March 30 - April 6 - Spring Break!

  • April 22 & 23 - 🎼 Casual music programs in the fellowship hall. Shortly after drop-off on this Wed & Thurs, your child will sing a few songs with their class & Ms. Vicki for an audience of parents and special loved ones in Ascension Hall. So, if your child has music on Wed, then they will sing on Wed. If their music class is on Thurs, then they will sing on Thurs) More details to come…

A VERY IMPORTANT CONSCIOUS DISCIPLINE MOMENT (a little long, but well worth the read!) - Here is an important word about the skill of assertiveness, paraphrased from Dr. Becky Bailey.  There are 3 voices that we can use to communicate - passive, aggressive, and assertive.  The goal of passivity is to please others.  Using a passive voice relinquishes your power by leaving decisions to others.  Aggressive communication aims to win by overpowering.  Aggressive people often speak for others and they frequently use the words "always" and "never" as forms of attack.  Assertiveness allows us to express our needs, wants and desires constructively, without devaluing the other person's needs, wants and desires.  Assertiveness teaches others how to treat us.  The goal of assertiveness is clear communication that paints a picture of what we want others to do.  It has a voice tone of "no doubt" and comes from an intention of helping children be successful instead of making them behave.

 How can we give assertive commands successfully?  By using an assertive voice worded as a command.  Commands are about non-negotiable compliance.  (Requests offer a choice.) We don't want to confuse children by wording commands as requests if there is really no choice.  For example, "Keith, would you take out the trash?" actually meant, "Get up now and take the trash to the curb."  There was really no choice, so an assertive command works better, “Keith, take out the trash.” Usually safety issues need to be worded as commands in an assertive voice.  "Hold my hand while we cross the street."  "Put your notebooks away and line up for lunch."  "Walk in the hall just like this." (demonstrate what you want the child to do.)  These are phrased so there is no question, no doubt.

Using an assertive voice as an adult models assertiveness for your child. Assertiveness lets you set your boundaries on what behaviors you consider safe, appropriate and permissible.  It enables you to say "no" to your children, and teaches them how to say "no" to others (a very important skill. ) Now, look at the workshop above and plan to come and learn this very thing from the Great Debbie Arena, our former director! You will walk away with the tools to make this work, I promise.😁

Peace,

Shelly


BONUS TIDBITS: If there’s something bothering you, ask yourself whether it will matter in one month. If not, let it go right now.

Happy Valentine's Day!

Hi CCP Families,

This week as I was driving to school, I passed Weaver Street Market and noticed one of our parents sitting at a table, spending time with their child. What really stood out was that this parent was not on their phone and was fully engaged with their child. Even though it was a brief moment, I could tell that this parent was enjoying this time and so was the child. I’m sure there was some interesting conversation going on (I can only imagine what it might have been 😉). Kudos to all you parents who take the time to carve out intentional space for your little ones during your busy schedules. I promise you, it’s worth it!

Conscious Discipline - “Put your children on your ‘to do list’ and spend time enjoying them! Five minutes of focused play each day reduces power struggles by 50%!” (from Preventing Power Struggles", part of the Presenter’s Series)

FAMILY VALENTINE’S DANCE - A favorite event !! Friday, Feb. 13 from 6:00-7:30pm in Ascension Hall. Everyone is invited! People have asked what to wear…whatever you like! Some wear jeans and others wear velvet and sparkles…anything in between is OK! Keep in mind, this is a kid-friendly, family event and we sincerely appreciate our PAC for taking the lead on this.

    Supply Fees due - Your 2026-27 supply fees are due by February 13. Of course this pays for supplies throughout the year, but it also serves as your acceptance of the offered spot and holds your place. If your child is in the 2’s and 3’s classes (Frog & Ladybugs), your fee is $230. If your child is in the 4’s classes (Ducks & Whales), your fee is $255.

Scholarships - For families who may need to apply for a 2026-27 scholarship (based on financial need) please email me directly and I’ll send you the application. The scholarship application has a deadline of Tuesday, April 7. It requires the completed application, your most recent tax return, and a recent pay stub. It is confidential.

Summer Camp - We plan to have camp June 2-5. We have room for 30 Ladybugs, Ducks, & Whales that are completely toilet trained. (Frogs will have to wait until next year.) Look for the camp registration form in your child’s cubby next week.

Coming soon….

  • February 2/16 - Please remember we are closed on Monday, February 16. The teachers will have a workday to prepare for upcoming March conferences.

  • February 25 & 26 - Pancakes and Pajamas has been rescheduled because of our closures and delay earlier this month. If you signed up to help with this event and would like to still help those days, you don’t have to sign up again. The dates have just been changed, and the sign-ups remain the same. If you cannot help with the new days, please take yourself off of the sign up. 🙂

  • March 1 - Please plan to come to Christ Church on Sunday, March 1 at 8:45 for Preschool Sunday. Your children will sing some special songs near the beginning of the 9:00 worship service and we will celebrate the CUMC Preschool Ministry. The service lasts about an hour. There is a nursery provided in the 2’s classroom for very young children. I’ll send more details, but for now, please mark your calendar!!

  • March 11 & 12 - Conferences - School is closed for spring conferences, but feel free to plan with a friend to watch each others’ children on the playground during your conferences.

  • March 30 - April 6 - Spring Break!

  • April 22 & 23 - 🎼 Casual music programs in the fellowship hall. Shortly after drop-off on this Wed & Thurs, your child will sing a few songs with their class & Ms. Vicki for an audience of parents and special loved ones in Ascension Hall. So, if your child has music on Wed, then they will sing on Wed. If their music class is on Thurs, then they will sing on Thurs) More details to come…

Whoever you believe is in charge of your feelings, you have placed in charge of you.  Putting a 3-year-old in charge of your feelings is pretty scary!  Take back your power with the language of responsibility:  "I'm going to ____" (instead of, "Don't make me _____.")  ~Dr. Becky Bailey  

Since Valentine’s Day is this Saturday, I want to take a moment to tell you how very much we love and appreciate YOU, our families. We love to partner with you in your child’s preschool education. Thank you for all you do to support us!

Happy Valentine’s Day! Enjoy your long weekend!


Peace,

Shelly

BONUS TIDBITS: When in doubt, love. We can always use more love.❤️

     

     

Supply Fees due and Welcome February!

Dear CCP Family,

Welcome February! It has been a super busy week with at lot to remember, so hang with me for a bit.

Class placements went out this week by email. I know a few of you were placed in second choice classes. We will try to move you if there are changes. Thanks for your understanding & patience.

PANCAKES AND PAJAMAS has been rescheduled for February 25/26 because of our closures and delay this week. If you signed up to help with this event and would like to still help those days, you don’t have to sign up again. The dates have just been changed and the sign ups remain the same. If you cannot help with the new days, please take yourself off of the sign up. 🙂

       SUPPLY FEES for 2026-27 are due by Friday, Feb. 13.  This fee secures your spot in the class for next year.  Please pay your fees on time or let us know if your plans have changed.  Thank you!

An update from our FUNdraising chair Carolyn Ziemer…

Hi CCP families,

Many thanks for your generosity this past month. Our January donation drive fundraiser of used toys and clothing earned $691.35 for our school! Thanks so much for pulling together to make this such a success. 

I'm grateful for your contributions and giving spirit, and I'm proud to be a part of the CCP family with you!

With thanks,

Carolyn Ziemer

FAMILY VALENTINE’S DANCE - A favorite event !! Friday, Feb. 13 from 6:00-7:30pm in Ascension Hall. Everyone is invited! People have asked what to wear…whatever you like! Some wear jeans and others wear velvet and sparkles…anything in between is OK! Keep in mind, this is a kid-friendly, family event and we sincerely appreciate our PAC for taking the lead on this.

VALENTINE’S DAY - Please follow your teachers’ instructions about when/how to celebrate in your child’s class.

PARENT WORKSHOP - Tuesday, February 24, 2026, from 7:00–8:00 PM, guest speaker Debbie Arena, child expert and former director of Christ Church Preschool, will share practical, age-appropriate strategies for setting healthy boundaries and clear expectations with young children. Learn how these tools support your preschooler’s emotional growth and help them feel safe, confident, and capable, both at school and at home.

SUMMER CAMP - Some of you have asked about summer camp. We plan to have camp June 2-5 for Ladybugs, Ducks, and Whales that would like to come. (Frogs, sorry you will have to wait until next summer.) I will have more information for you approx. mid-February!

 WANT TO SERVE ON THE PRESCHOOL ADVISORY COMMITTEE next year? -  We would love to have you join us!  Your service would be sincerely appreciated AND it's a great opportunity to get to know other preschool parents.  If you’re interested, please contact Ashton Blue, @ashton.southofsurrey.com. Thanks for your consideration!

CHRIST CHURCH VBS will take place this summer, June 22-26. If your child was a Ladybug, Whale, or Duck this year they can join in on the fun! Here is the link to sign up: https://onrealm.org/ChristUnitedMet15705/PublicRegistrations/Event?linkString=OTA1YmZjMjUtNDhhMi00YzA4LWE4OGYtYjNkOTAxNDgwOTIw

Coming soon….

  • February 2/16 - Please remember we are closed on Monday, February 16.. The teachers will have a workday to prepare for upcoming March conferences.

  • March 1 - Please plan to come to Christ Church on Sunday, March 1 at 8:45 for Preschool Sunday. Your children will sing a special song near the beginning of the 9:00 worship service and we will celebrate the CUMC Preschool Ministry. The service lasts about an hour. There is a nursery provided in the 2’s classroom for very young children. I’ll send more details, but for now, please mark your calendar!!

  • March 11 & 12 - Conferences - School is closed for spring conferences, but feel free to plan with a friend to watch each others’ children on the playground during your conferences.

  • March 30 - April 6 - Spring Break!

  • April 22 & 23 - 🎼 Casual music programs in the fellowship hall. (Shortly after drop-off on this Wed & Thurs, your child will sing a few songs with their class & Ms. Vicki for an audience of parents and special loved ones in Ascension Hall. So, if your child has music on Wed, then they will sing on Wed. If their music class is on Thurs, then they will sing on Thurs) More details to come…

        In CONSCIOUS DISCIPLINE, Dr. Becky Bailey reminds us, "Allowing children to reflect on their choices rather than judging, placing guilt, blaming, or rescuing them gives children access to the internal feedback necessary for them to take responsibility for their actions and make better choices in the future." So not in the heat of the moment, but when things are calm, talk with your child about the choice and what happened. Leave out any judgment or blame. Allow your child to come to a conclusion about the choice. Brainstorm different possible choices that could be used next time.

Peace,

Shelly

BONUS TIDBITS: It doesn’t have to be perfect to be wonderful.

Class Placements & Pivoting


IMPORTANT UPDATE:

ONE HOUR DELAY TOMORROW, JAN. 30TH

Dear CCP Families,

Thanks for your understanding this week in having to move our Pancakes and Pajama Day to next Wednesday/Thursday (4th & 5th). With so many unknowns in the weather this week, it was the best call. You all have been very understanding with the pivoting you’ve had to do during this time. I thank you for it! l will keep you updated on any pivoting we need to do in terms of weather after this weekend…❄️☃️

PARENT WORKSHOP - Join us for a helpful and encouraging parent workshop, “Boundaries and Expectations”, hosted by the Durham Orange Preschool Association and Orange County Preschools.

On Tuesday, February 24, 2026, from 7:00–8:00 PM, guest speaker Debbie Arena, child expert and former director of Christ Church Preschool, will share practical, age-appropriate strategies for setting healthy boundaries and clear expectations with young children. Learn how these tools support your preschooler’s emotional growth and help them feel safe, confident, and capable, both at school and at home.

United Church Preschool 1321 Martin Luther King Blvd., Chapel Hill $5 per participant (each director is collecting from their parents) Child care not provided Please RSVP to your school’s director (that’s me). We hope you’ll join us for this valuable evening of learning and connection!

SUMMER CAMP - Some of you have asked about summer camp. We plan to have camp June 2-5 for Ladybugs, Ducks, and Whales that would like to come. (Frogs, sorry you will have to wait until next summer.) I will have more information for you approx. mid-February!

FEB. TUITION - Please remember that your February tuition is due on Feb. 1, but must be here by Feb. 5 at 9:00am to avoid a late fee. Thanks for paying your tuition on time. (This may be adjusted depending on the weather next week)

CLASS PLACEMENT - Thank you for turning in your 26-27 applications. We will send an email next week with your class placements. We will do our best to give you your first choices, but in some cases (the 3’s) we may have to place your child in your second choice. We will try to move them to your first choice class as things shift around between now and the summer. Your 26-27 supply/equipment fees will be due by Feb. 13 ($230 for 2’s & 3’s; $255 for 4’s) Encourage friends and neighbors to hurry and register by tomorrow, January 30!

💕FAMILY VALENTINE DANCE - Feb. 13 - 6:00-7:30p - You don’t want to miss this FAVORITE event! Put on your dancing shoes and show us your moves! Come for dancing, fellowship, the photo booth, snacks, and FUN!

SCHOOL CLOSED - Feb 16 - Teacher workday

Looking ahead with spring dates - more details to come, but make sure to mark the calendar for now:

  • March 1 - Please plan to come to Christ Church on Sunday, March 1 at 8:45 for Preschool Sunday. Your children will sing a special song near the beginning of the 9:00 worship service and we will celebrate the CUMC Preschool Ministry. The service lasts about an hour. There is a nursery provided in the 2’s classroom for very young children. I’ll send more details, but for now, please mark your calendar!!

  • March 11 & 12 - Conferences - School is closed for spring conferences, but feel free to plan with a friend to watch each others’ children on the playground during your conferences.

  • March 30 - April 6 - Spring Break!

  • April 22 & 23 - 🎼 Casual music programs in the fellowship hall. (Shortly after drop-off on this Wed & Thurs, your child will sing a few songs with their class & Ms. Vicki for an audience of parents and special loved ones in Ascension Hall. So, if your child has music on Wed, then they will sing on Wed. If their music class is on Thurs, then they will sing on Thurs) More details to come…

HOW TO PIVOT - Dr. Becky Bailey tells us, “When you are upset, pivot. Say to yourself, ‘If I’m upset, I’m focusing on what I don’t want. Do I want more of this in my life?’ If the answer is no, breathe deeply. Then tell your child what TO DO and why.” (The “why” should use safety language as much as possible.)  Remember to focus on what you want!

Peace,

Shelly

Bonus Tidbits: Taking no risk is the biggest risk you can take. Regret from inaction is always more painful than regret from action.

January Fun

Dear CCP Family,


Thank you for turning in your applications for next school year. The CCP Admissions Committee will meet in early February.  We will email the results asap including details of the next steps to take.. We will do our best to honor as many first choices as possible.

Also, please remind your friends with young children that it is time to register for 2026-27! It happens early so they may not be aware. Hopefully our red and white sign by 15-501 will help awareness. New applications are due by Jan. 30.

TOY/CLOTHING DRIVE - We will continue to collect gently used children’s toys/clothing until the end of the month. Our FUNdraising guru, Carolyn Ziemer has brought multiple loads to the resale stores and will let us know the total of what YOU gave this month! When all is said and done, we will have surpassed what we would have made with our card fundraiser. Thank you!

Families, please mark your calendars . More details to come…

  • Pancakes & PJ’S - Wear your pajamas to preschool on Wed, Jan 28 (Ducks, MW Frogs, MWF Ladybugs) or Thurs, Jan 29 (Whales, TTH Frogs, TTH Ladybugs) We will eat at 10:00am in Ascension Hall. Parent representatives will be communicating with you about how you can help. If you are settting up or cooking pancakes, you may start right after drop off. I’ll be around to answer questions.

  • VALENTINE DANCE - February 13 - Please bring the whole family to dance and have fun with us from 6:00-7:30 in Ascension Hall. We will transform Ancension Hall into a party!! There will be snacks, a photo booth, and music for dancing!

Looking ahead with spring dates - more details to come, but make sure to mark the calendar for now:

  • March 1 - Please plan to come to Christ Church on Sunday, March 1 at 8:45 for Preschool Sunday. Your children will sing a special song near the beginning of the 9:00 worship service and we will celebrate the CUMC Preschool Ministry. The service lasts about an hour. There is a nursery provided in the 2’s classroom for very young children. I’ll send more details, but for now, please mark your calendar!!

  • March 11 & 12 - Conferences - School is closed for spring conferences, but feel free to plan with a friend to watch each others’ children on the playground during your conferences.

  • March 30 - April 6 - Spring Break!

  • April 22 & 23 - Casual music programs in the fellowship hall. (Shortly after drop-off on this Wed & Thurs, your child will sing a few songs with their class & Ms. Vicki for an audience of parents and special loved ones in Ascension Hall. So, if your child has music on Wed, then they will sing on Wed. If their music class is on Thurs, then they will sing on Thurs) More details to come…

A sweet chapel moment.❤️

     From Dr. Bailey's Feeling Buddies Curriculum, "Much like adults create written to-do lists and record appointments on a calendar, picture outlines of everyday routines provide predictability and safety for children.  Instead of expecting them to remember, visuals provide developmentally appropriate tools to help them remember."   You may know that each of our classrooms has a picture schedule of their day.  The teachers refer to it during the day to let the children know what comes next and how they are progressing through the school day.  Some classes even have helpful visuals to remind children of toileting and hand-washing routines.  You can post pictures at home for how to clean up toys, the steps to feed the dog, how to brush your teeth, or even how to get dressed in the morning!  You can also put these pictures in a little book that you can "read" anytime you are preparing for an event.  Check out Shubert’s house on the Conscious Discipline website, www.consciousdiscipline.com for ideas!  It’s under “Free resources.”

❄️POSSIBLE WEATHER EVENT: As you all already know, there is a high chance that we will be hit with some kind of weather this weekend. Depending on when and what actually falls from the sky, I will keep you updated as the new week begins. Because Chapel Hill/Carrboro Schools are already out due to a teacher workday, I won’t be relying on that call like I normally do. Hopefully, it will be very obvious , e.g. travel advisories being issued, but I will also be in close contact with the Durham Orange Preschool Association so we are all on the same page. Saddle up everyone, it could be a wild ride! 😁

Peace,

Shelly

Bonus Tidbits: If it’s raining on a warm summer evening, go out and dance it!

*For this weekend, change raining to snowing and warm summer to cold winter ☃️.

Setting Limits and how to be a S.T.A.R.

Hi CCP Family,

    I know you are happy to be in a routine again after the holidays! When families are out of our routines for an extended time, sometimes our “buttons” get pushed. Remember, Dr. Bailey reminds us in Easy to Love, Difficult to Discipline (p. 22) that “Children learn self-discipline in 3 stages: 1) They find the limits by experimenting. 2) They retest their findings by repeatedly doing what they were told not to (including teasing/provoking & pushing your buttons) to see if the limit is firm. 3) If the limit proves firm, they internalize it.” So, know that your children are just doing their jobs when they test your limits. I know it’s hard, but keep the limits firm, so you can reach step 3 and the children can internalize the limits.

     Please remember that 2026-27 preschool applications for currently-enrolled families are due by tomorrow, Friday, Jan. 16.  We would love to have sibling applications by then, also. Thanks!  Please remember that we try to honor your first choice, but we may have to hold a drawing in early February if there are more applicants for a particular class than there are spaces.

Soon Ashton Blue, current chair of our Preschool Advisory Committee “the PAC” will begin to look for parents who may be interested in serving on the committee for 26-27. There will be a few vacancies on the committee that we need to fill. It’s not a large commitment and it gives you a chance to understand how the preschool decisions are madel! Please contact Ashton, or me to express your interest! We will get you connected!

TOY/CLOTHING DRIVE - We will continue to collect gently used children’s toys/clothing until the end of the month. Our FUNdraising guru, Carolyn Ziemer has brought multiple loads to the resale stores and will let us know the total of what YOU gave this month! When all is said and done, it’s looking like we might match our card fundraiser that we usually do in the fall but didn’t get to do this year because of unavailability at that time.

BLOG POST REMINDER:  To respond to your teacher on the emailed blog, you must click the link at the top where it says "To reply to Ms. ____, click here."  Unfortunately, the way it is set up, if you just click "reply," your message actually comes to me.  Of course, I will try to forward your message, but it may not be as timely. Thanks!

MLK Jr DAY - Please remember that preschool is closed for Martin Luther King, Jr. Day on Monday, January 19.  

PANCAKES AND PJ’S - We have planned our annual school-wide Pancakes and PJ’s on Wed & Thurs, Jan 28 & 39. Your class representative will send more details. You are invited to sign up to help. You may either provide items or cook/serve/clean-up pancakes. (Ducks & MW classes will eat on Wed 1/28. Whales and TTH classes will eat on Thurs, 1/29.) Watch for more information from your class parent rep.

LOOKING AHEAD - Our annual 💕 Valentine Dance 💕 will be on Friday, Feb. 13 from 6:00-7:30 pm. Put on your dancing clothes and shoes! The fellowship hall will be transformed into a party! This event is for your whole family. It’s always a favorite!

     As you know, we do a lot of "intentional breathing" at preschool.  Often we call it being a S.T.A.R. (Smile, Take a deep breath And Relax.) Conscious Discipline tells us "Consciously breathing releases toxins from the body, improves the immune system, balances the nervous system, turns off the stress response, facilitates weight loss, helps release unhealthy memories and stifled emotions, and integrates our brain to engage the higher centers for optimal functioning."   (Feeling Buddies Curriculum, p. 70)  So anytime you feel stressed, remember to be a S.T.A.R!  Three slow, deep "belly breaths" can really help calm you and reset your system.  If your child is too upset in the moment to breathe, then you breathe for them.  Even just holding them close to you and breathing deeply can "download" your calm to them and help them move to the higher centers of the brain.  (Just make sure that you are calm and conscious first!) ;-)

Peace,

Shelly

BONUS TIDBITS: Whenever you hug someone, make sure they are the one to let go first.

Happy New Year!

Dear CCP Family,

        Happy new year!  I hope 2026 brings us all health, kindness, and peace! I also wish you the gift of simplicity and stillness in the new year. Keeping things simple and still allows us to be present, reduces stress and increases gratitude.

        TUITION - Please remember that January tuition is due.  We extended the deadline to tomorrow, Friday, Jan. 9.  Jen is very generous with that deadline, so please pay on time so she doesn’t have to send reminders. If you slipped up and forgot, you can pop by tomorrow and bring a check. Thank you.

        REGISTRATION - This month is time to register for the 2026-27 school year!  You can find the application on our website and I sent one by email.  Every currently-enrolled child is guaranteed a place for next year, but we can't guarantee that it will be in your first choice class. We will do our best!  Currently enrolled applications are due by Friday, Jan 16 so we can secure a spot for you.  You are my best “advertisers”, so please invite your friends to apply to CCP also!  New families have until Jan. 30 to apply.

LADYBUG REGISTRATION - Ladybugs, when you are in the hallway, I know all you can see is our Whale class for 4’s, which is fabulous. Please remember that we have a fabulous Duck 🐤 class for 4’s, too. It’s just tucked around the corner near the preschool office. Please feel free to pop by and visit Ms Sue and Ms Carina and see the Duck space. I want to be sure you know we have two 4-year-old options.

LUNCH BUNCH STARTS - Lunch Bunches resume for the Whales and Ducks classes next week. They continue to be Monday/Wednesdays, with pick-up at 1:00pm on those days. The Ladybug classes will begin their Lunch Bunches next week. The M/W/F class has Lunch Bunch on Wednesdays, and the T/Th class has Lunch Bunch on Thursdays. Each will end at 1:00pm. Be sure to pack a nut/sesame free lunch for those days. There is no charge for Lunch Bunch.

PRESCHOOL ADVISORY COMMITTEE - We have a meeting on Monday, Jan. 12, 2025 at 9:15 in Ascension Hall. We will be planning for Pancakes/Pjs, and the Valentine Dance so please plan to join us.

        INCLEMENT WEATHER - January is a good time to review our inclement weather policy from your parent handbook:

If Chapel Hill – Carrboro City Schools close due to the weather, then Christ Church Preschool will also close.  If Chapel Hill – Carrboro City Schools delay their starting time by one or two hours, then Christ Church Preschool will open for students at 10:00 a.m.  If CHCCS delay by 3 hours, then CCP will close.  (Note that we follow Chapel Hill schools - not Chatham and not Orange Co) When in doubt, please check your email for an announcement. The preschool will not make up or refund tuition for days missed due to inclement weather.  (I usually try to have the announcement about closures sent to your email by 7:00am.)

         CLOTHING - Please make sure your child has warm outerwear during the winter months.  The children almost always go outside in the fresh air even on very cold days. Even if your child does not wear a coat in the car, please bring a coat to place in the cubbie for outdoor time. It is helpful to label the loose pieces (hats, gloves, etc) with your child's name.  (The Frog class requests that you send mittens instead of gloves.)  Also, please be sure that your change of clothing in the cubbie is appropriate for the weather.

January brings snowmen, even without snow!

SCHOOL CLOSED MLK JR DAY - Monday, January 19th CCP will be closed. Please mark your calendar.

CONSCIOUS DISCIPLINE MOMENT - Finally, here are the top 4 things to know about the brain from Dr. Becky Bailey:

  • The brain is pattern-seeking (Consistent routines are helpful.)

  • The best exercise for the brain is exercise. (Run, jump, & play!)

  • Connections on the outside build neural connections on the inside (Connect with your child through touch, presence, & eye contact in playful situations.)

  • The brain functions optimally when we feel physically and psychologically safe (This is when learning takes place!)

       

Peace,

Shelly

Bonus Tidbits: The “good old days” are always happening right now. 😄

Thank you and Merry Christmas!

Dear CCP Families,

It’s been a week of anticipation, rehearsals, and SUGAR! Tis the season, right? Thanks for hanging in there with us and helping during our class events, providing all the fun things for our celebrations, and taking time during this busy season to let us present the gift of song to you this morning.

CONCERT - Thank you for coming to our Christmas Concert! Thank you, Ms Vicki, and teachers! It was fun to celebrate Jesus’ birth together as a school family. I am so proud of our children. When you’re a preschooler, it’s a BIG deal to stand in front of an audience, let alone remember all the words to the songs! Thank you for your love and support. We are so grateful for you, our families!

TAX-DEDUCTIBLE DONATION - If you did not have the opportunity to make a donation when we ordered Spirit wear, please know that we will gladly accept your tax-deductible donation at any point in the year. Just make your check to CCP and drop it in the tuition box. Jen can provide a receipt for you. Thanks for your generosity!

CHRISTMAS EVE - You are invited to Christmas Eve at Christ Church! There are 3 services: 3:00p is the family-friendly service - perfect for families with young children; 5:00p is Carols and Communion on the Village Green - please bring your own lawn chair; 7:00p is Traditional Candlelight service in the sanctuary. Choose the service that you prefer and plan to join us!

FUNDRAISER - Our wonderful PAC FUNdraiser chair, Carolyn Ziemer is a genius! She has come up with a great way to raise some funds for CCP. We are not asking anyone for a monetary donation, but we are asking that as you clean out old clothing & toys that are in good condition, consider donating it to CCP! Possible porch pick-ups may be available during the month of December (watch for an email from me, I’m thinking next Monday…🙂). Carolyn has made a flyer with info below:

BACK TO SCHOOL - We look forward to seeing your smiling faces back at preschool on Monday, January 5, 2026.

TUITION - The January tuition deadline has been extended to January 9th. Thanks for paying your fees on time.

A CONSCIOUS DISCIPLINE MOMENT - Combining connection and calming is powerful. It activates the attention systems, the motivation systems, and the impulse control systems in the brain. It creates an alert yet relaxed internal state that is ideal for all learning. ~Brain Smart Choices Cubes

As we move into 2026, my prayer is that we can all see the world like children, through eyes of wonder and hope. Don’t worry about creating “perfection” in your family life - too much pressure! Turn off screens & social media - too much competition! Instead, smile & breathe. Keep things simple….. hot cocoa on a cold night, a walk or ride to look at Christmas decorations, or bake something yummy together. These are the priceless memories that children will forever remember long after the toys are gone.

This week, I pray that the values from Advent will last all year. I wish you HOPE, LOVE, JOY & PEACE.

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year CCP Family!

Peace,

Shelly

Bonus Tidbits: When you meet someone, look them in the eye, give a firm handshake, and call them by their name.

CCP - Concert, Donation, Christmas Eve

Hello CCP Families,

Christmas is in full swing here at preschool! I know the children are having such a good time making all their classroom preparations. Decorations, songs, & surprises…oh my!

Thank you! - Heather Bochicco, a former CCP parent and the organizer of our book drive we had last month, has asked me to share her thanks with you all for your generosity:

PRESCHOOL CHRISTMAS CONCERT - Please plan to bring the relatives and join us for our concert on Thursday, Dec. 18 at 9:30. ALL classes are invited to be here. (Drop your children in the classroom at 9:00 and then find a seat in the sanctuary.) This concert is our Christmas gift of love to you. After the concert, we will say goodbye for the holidays. Of course, you may want a family photo in front of our BIG Christmas tree before you go!

TAX-DEDUCTIBLE DONATION - If you did not have the opportunity to make a donation when we ordered Spirit wear, please know that we will gladly accept your tax-deductible donation at any point in the year. Just make your check to CCP and drop it in the tuition box. Jen can provide a receipt for you. Thanks for your generosity!

CHRISTMAS EVE - You are invited to Christmas Eve at Christ Church! There are 3 services: 3:00p is the family-friendly service - perfect for families with young children; 5:00p is Carols and Communion on the Village Green - please bring your own lawn chair; 7:00p is Traditional Candlelight service in the sanctuary. Choose the service that you prefer and plan to join us!

JANUARY TUITION -We are giving you a little grace to pay January tuition. Please pay by January 9th to avoid late fees. Thanks so much for paying your fees on time!

FUNDRAISER - Our wonderful PAC FUNdraiser chair, Carolyn Ziemer is a genius! She has come up with a great way to raise some funds for CCP. We are not asking anyone for a monetary donation, but we are asking that as you clean out old clothing & toys that are in good condition, consider donating it to CCP! Possible porch pick-ups may be available during the month of December. Carolyn has made a flyer with info below:

CONSCIOUS DISCIPLINE MOMENT - Sometimes the holidays become hectic. Please remember to breathe and calm yourself before you speak/act. Let your children see you taking a moment to calm. Even describe what you’re doing, so your children can learn from you! “The most powerful teaching moments are always the result of your ability to model the skills you want your children to demonstrate. For you to model safety, you must be vigilant in self-regulating your emotional states.” (Creating the School Family, p. 83)

This week, along with Hope and Love, I wish you the JOY of Advent!

Peace,

Shelly

Bonus Tidbits:

Never let a good friendship atrophy. Send the text, make the call, plan the trip. Good friendships must be treasured.

Saying "No"

Dear CCP Families,

There is so much excitement in the building at this time of year! Tinsel & trees & handprints & lights & SO MUCH JOY! It’s magical to see Christmas through a child’s eyes.

A note about the possible weather event that could take place tomorrow. CH/Carrboro School has called for a two hour delay in anticipation of possible snow/ice early tomorrow. That means CCP will operate on a one hour delay, with classes starting at 10:00am. This gives everyone time to arrive safely and have class. If this changes, I will let you know via email.

Inclement Weather policy from our Parent Handbook: The preschool may be canceled due to inclement weather. When the weather is uncertain, please follow this policy: If Chapel Hill – Carrboro City Schools close due to the weather, then Christ Church Preschool will also close. If Chapel Hill – Carrboro City Schools delay their starting time by one or two hours, then Christ Church Preschool will open for students at 10:00 a.m. If CHCCS delay by 3 hours, then CCP will close. When in doubt, please check your email for an announcement. The preschool will not make up or refund tuition for days missed due to inclement weather.

PRESCHOOL CHRISTMAS CONCERT - Thursday, Dec. 18 we will have our Preschool Christmas Concert at 9:30 in the Sanctuary. (This is for ALL classes, both MW and TTH) It will only last about half an hour and then we will say good-bye right after our concert for the holidays. Please park, bring your child to their classroom at 9:00, and have a seat in the Sanctuary. (Since the whole school will be here at once, you may need to park in the municipal lots.) This is our Christmas gift of love to you! I hope you can come!

JANUARY TUITION - We return to school after the Christmas holidays on Monday, Jan. 5. Tuition will be due that day, but not considered late until noon on Jan. 9. Please mark your calendar & make sure your January tuition is here by Jan. 9th to avoid late fees. Thanks for paying your fees on time.

TAX-DEDUCTIBLE DONATION - If you did not have the opportunity to make a donation when we ordered Spirit wear, please know that we will gladly accept your tax-deductible donation at any point in the year. Just make your check to CCP and drop it in the tuition box. Jen can provide a receipt for you. Thanks for your generosity!

STAFF CHRISTMAS LUNCH - CCP will treat the staff to lunch for Christmas next week. Educators have BIG hearts and work very hard, and you would probably be shocked to see their small paychecks! Therefore, we love to give them little gifts of appreciation when we can.

REGISTRATION 26-27 - Our “official” registration month is January. Currently enrolled students and younger siblings of former alumni should register by Jan. 16th. Please encourage your neighbors and friends to apply at CCP, too. Their applications are due Jan. 30. We would love to have them join our preschool family. They are also welcome to email or call for a tour and to learn more about the program. (The updated applications are already on the website if you want to check that task off your list early, too.)

CHURCH CHRISTMAS PAGEANT - YOU are invited! The children of Christ Church will perform a Christmas pageant on Sunday, Dec. 7 at 10:00am in Ascension Hall. Some of your children may be participating, but everyone is invited to come and watch! I think our preschoolers would love to be the audience and watch other children tell the Christmas story.

A CONSCIOUS DISCIPLINE MOMENT - Discipline has a great deal to teach children about “no.” If you cave in when children plead, you fail to teach them how to accept or give a meaningful “no.” (Easy to Love, Difficult to Discipline, P. 21) When you teach children to assertively set limits, you teach respect and encourage personal power. This is such an important lesson, especially as children become teens. We want them to understand that their “no” has power AND we want them to respect the “no” from others. You can model that for them!



This week, along with Advent Hope, I wish you Advent Peace,

Shelly



Bonus Tidbits:

You may occasionally disappoint others, but make sure to never disappoint yourself.

Thanksgiving & I-Messages

 Dear CCP Family,

THANKSGIVING is coming.  I love the feeling of gratitude. I also love preparing dinner for my family and having them around my table. Over the Thanksgiving break we will be apart for a while - preschool is closed Nov. 24-28. As you celebrate with family & friends, I wish you safe travels, good health, and much patience, love, and peace.  

A colorful turkey from the Duck class!

GRATITUDE - As we have prepared for Thanksgiving at preschool, we have have talked turkeys and food, but we have also focused on gratitude.  Gratitude is a mindset and value.  To promote the attitude of gratitude in your home, encouragement is key!  Focus on the positives.  Notice & encourage your child's efforts as he or she practices the pro-social skills of kindness, caring and helpfulness.  

In our preschool family, we are trying to be aware of being helpful to our friends and teachers.  As you plan for Thanksgiving, find little jobs that involve your preschooler and allow them to help with preparations.  They can put the napkins on the table, make place-cards, put fruits or vegetables in a basket, decorate a butcher paper tablecloth, count out the forks, etc.  Allowing little ones to help makes them feel important and develops the pro-social skills we all want.  Notice and encourage their acts of kindness and helpfulness.

While I’m talking about gratitude, I’d like to give a shout out to Pastor Lee, Christ Church’s Family Pastor (and our chapel time leader). Almost every morning, you’ll find him smiling at the front door with his yo-yo, greeting everyone as they enter. Pastor Lee is not required to be here in the mornings; he wants to be. Did you know that after you all exit the building, he checks the doors to make sure that they are all locked? The next time you see Pastor Lee, thank him for his dedication and service to us!

FRIENDS-GIVING is here at the church on 11/23 at 5pm. All are welcome! Good food and fellowship! Can it get any better than that (say that in Chandler Bing’s voice & a turkey on your head)?

BOOK DRIVE - Our book drive is coming to an end this Friday. If you have any gently used or new books you’d like to donate, drop them in the bin right outside the Blue Whale room by tomorrow. Thank you to all who have donated already. You are sending the gift of literacy out into the world!

ANGEL TREE BEGINS! Come grab a tag off the tree in the Narthex, go shopping, and return the gifts on or before December 7th (there are detailed instructions on the back of the tags) The gifts will be delivered to the families at Frank Porter Graham Elementary.

PRESCHOOL CHRISTMAS PROGRAM- Please reserve Thurs, Dec. 18 at 9:30 for our annual CCP Christmas Program in the Sanctuary. Each class will sing a song or two and we will tell the Christmas story. It is our gift to you! M/W classes, please come too!! Take your child to their classroom at 9:00 and find a seat in the sanctuary. We will begin at 9:30. Please keep in mind that you may need to park in the municipal lots around Southern Village since the whole school will be assembled.

CHANGE OF CLOTHES - Please be sure you have changed out your child's extra clothing to something that is appropriate for the cooler weather.  Also please make sure all removable clothing is labeled with your child's name. The teachers sincerely appreciate that!

WIPES - Cold/flu season is upon us! If you have an extra canister of Lysol or Clorox wipes or a can of Lysol spray that you could donate, we could sure put those to use. Thanks!

YOU - I want to take a moment to tell you how grateful I am for YOU!  Each child, family, and safekeeper in the CCP Family is important and precious.  I LOVE being a partner in your child's education.  Thank you for choosing CCP and for trusting us to play and learn with your little ones.  

A CONSCIOUS DISCIPLINE MOMENT: I-MESSAGES - Children will disobey you. It is part of their developmental journey to find and test limits. I-messages can help when frustration sets in. I-messages are skills that originate from owning one’s feelings and claiming one’s power. If you believe children make you angry, you will be unsuccessful. Own your feelings and express them directly with an i-message. Here’s an example: “When your toys are left on the floor, I feel frustrated because I might trip and hurt myself. Pick up your toys and put them on the shelf.” If your child hits you to obtain your attention, say “Ouch! I don’t like when you hit me. If you want my attention, say, ‘Mom, I have something to tell you’ or put your hand gently on my arm. That’s a signal that you need me.” I-messages can help you set boundaries for your child in a calm, yet assertive way. Then, just as importantly, follow boundary-setting with what you want your child TO DO. (paraphrased from Conscious Discipline, p.118-120)

Happy Thanksgiving!



Peace,

Shelly



Bonus Tidbits:

Getting old is no picnic, but it’s much better than the alternative.

 

 

Wishing Well

Dear CCP Families,

Hard to believe that we are already half way through November! Very soon the holidays will be here. Sometimes I have to take a breath because time goes faster than I would like!

BOOK DRIVE - A former CCP parent, Heather Bochicco, works with Chatham Reads to gather gently used or new books for children in Chatham County that may not have easy access to books. To help put more books in the hands of children in our area, Heather has placed a bin under the Blue Whale classroom to collect some books. Thank you for considering donating to this cause during the month of November!

PAC - We meet at 9:15am on Monday 11/17 in Ascension Hall. We will be voting on next year’s budget. Please be sure you have read over it, asked all your questions, and are ready to vote.

Thanksgiving Break - 11/24-11/28 - CCP is closed.

CHRISTMAS PROGRAM - Be sure to mark your calendar for Thursday, Dec 18 at 9:30 in the sanctuary! This program of songs will be our Christmas gift to all our families. Please join us even if you usually attend on M/W.

WISHING WELL - We know the holidays can be a fun, but stressful time of year!  Remember to BREATHE and WISH WELL anytime the world does not go your way.  Here's a good reminder from Easy to Love, Difficult to Discipline (p.210)...."At every moment you have a choice between approaching the world with a spirit of love and learning or one of fear and punishing.  That choice is yours."

         When you make that positive choice, you can quietly share this gift of breath and well wishes to impact your little corner of the world.  Amy Speidel, a Loving Guidance Associate reminds us, "When you see another parent struggling with an out-of control child, along with being thankful it wasn't your turn, wish that parent and child well.  They will find their way.  And trust that the same well wishing will grace you when it is your turn."  (Remember a wish well is not merely a thought, but a positive energy and love that you send out with a deep breath and a softened face.)  Be gentle with one another! Sometimes at preschool if a friend is having a hard time, the whole class will pause, breathe, and send that person love. You see, when a little one is upset, she is unable to breathe deeply. So, for that moment, her friends breathe for her. It’s just one more way that we form a loving community of support.

Peace,

Shelly


Bonus Tidbits:

No one has ever argued their way to happiness.

A Note About Peace

Dear CCP Families,

We work towards peace everyday at preschool. Our children learn to talk through conflicts and work out solutions. This is one of the most important things we do! "If we are going to have real peace, and win the war against violence, we must start with children. By settling disputes with their peers, children gain an understanding of how to respect the needs of others, while meeting their own needs. They learn that there is often more than one 'right' side to a dispute, that feelings are important, and that there are many possible 'win-win' solutions." (~ Betsy Evans) I have hope for the future because our children are learning these problem-solving skills and can use them to make the world a more peaceful place..

We loved seeing the big blue Chapel Hill fire truck on Monday! The fire fighters asked me to make sure you have a meeting place for your family in case the unthinkable happens and you would have to leave your house due to fire. It could be a tree, the mailbox, or a neighbor’s porch. Please talk about your plan with the whole family and check the batteries in your smoke detectors. If your house has gas, please also have a carbon monoxide detector. Teach your children to go to the family meeting place to find you if there is a fire, and go TO the fire fighters if they are looking for you - they are kind and they are helpers. Use this language to make the fire fighters more approachable. This is Captain Powell showing how he would look if he came to help your family:

Sometimes, former students visit us on their days off while we are in session. This Tuesday I had a first grade friend join me in the office for some reading time. Two years ago she was a Duck learning her letters and numbers and now she is reading full books. What a delight!

Our spirit days were so much fun! I loved seeing all of the different class colors both days. These days are great for even more class bonding. It’s always special to belong somewhere. Thank you to the parents who even showed their spirit!

Two events that Christ Church is offering are CUMC Friends-giving and a Kids Christmas Pageant. Friends-giving is here at the church on 11/23 at 5pm. All are welcome! Good food and fellowship! Can it get any better than that (say that in Chandler Bing’s voice)?

The Christ Church Kids Christmas Pageant will be at the church on 12/7 at 10am. Rehearsals are the several following Sundays: 11/9, 11/16, 11/23, and 11/30, all at 10am. The final rehearsal is 12/6 from 3-5pm. Calling all sheep, angels, and shepherds!

Remember next Tuesday Nov. 11 is Veteran’s Day and CCP is closed. Thankful for all of our veterans!

Monday, Nov. 17 the CCP Advisory Committee will meet at 9:15am in Ascension Hall (right after drop-off). PAC members, please try to be present, as we will vote on next year’s budget. Please make sure you have read over the proposal and have all your questions answered. (If you must be absent, please email your vote to Ashton Blue (chair) and Kristin Waitkus (secretary).

Thanksgiving Break - 11/24-11/28 - CCP is closed.

Please mark your December calendar…We will have our Preschool Christmas Concert on the last day of preschool before Christmas. It will be on Thursday , December 18 at 9:30am in the Sanctuary. We will sing a few songs and tell the Christmas story. TTH classes, please do plan to be here, too! (We try to take turns, a Wednesday one year and a Thursday the next.) We will have our program at 9:30 and then everyone will go home with their families after the program. I will provide more details as we get closer, but for now, please mark your calendar for this special day.

A CONSCIOUS DISCIPLINE MOMENT - “Capture your child’s attention before you speak. Move close to her, wait for her to look at you, and say ‘There you are.’ “ (from Easy to Love, Difficult to Discipline, p. 96) You may have noticed that CCP teachers try to avoid calling across the classroom to a student. It’s much more effective to move close to the child and get his or her attention before you start to talk or give directions.

Peace,

Shelly

Bonus Tidbits:

The most damning lie you can tell is the lie you tell to yourself.

CCP Parades and November!

Dear CCP Families,

Happy Halloween and here comes November! Well, most of the kids enjoyed parading around in their Halloween costumes. ;-) It was a bit confusing for the 2’s, because it’s hard to say goodbye to your parent twice in one morning! Thank you for your support with that.

PHOTOS - A reminder that as we take pictures of our children during special events, we kindly ask that you not share any pictures of any other student than your own on social media. Many parents feel strongly about keeping their child’s face off of the internet, so I’d like to honor that. Thanks!

PUMPKINS - Our classes have been busy painting, carving, and pounding pumpkins. Yes, pounding. With small hammers in hand, they practice for a possible future in carpentry, sculpting, or maybe doctoring. Using “nails” (golf tees) they have to aim carefully or they may have some sore thumbs. Another great way our teachers have been encouraging fine motor skills and hand-eye coordination while having fun!

BOOK DRIVE - A former CCP parent, Heather Bochicco, works with Chatham Reads to gather gently used or new books for children in Chatham County that may not have easy access to books. To help put more books in the hands of children in our area, Heather has placed a bin under the Blue Whale classroom to collect some books. Thank you for considering donating to this cause during the month of November! Additional details are below:

TUITION - is due on November 1 and considered late after Nov. 5. Thanks for paying your fees on time.

CCUMC BENVOLENCE CONCERT - This Sunday, Nov. 2 at 4pm. Come and soak in the music with our own Dr Daniel Steinert and friends. This concert is free, but donations are welcome and benefit Meals of Hope. Oh yes, there is an Ice Cream Reception immediately following the performance in Ascension Hall (who doesn’t love ice cream?).

FIRE TRUCK - The Chapel Hill Fire Dept. will bring their truck for a visit on Monday, November 3rd! (If you are in a T/Th class, please feel free to join us at 9:30 in Ascension Hall.) Usually, the fire fighters show us how they look & sound when wearing all their gear. Then they take us, class by class, to look at the truck!

SCHOOL SPIRIT - On Wednesday/Thursday, Nov. 5/6 we will celebrate “SCHOOL SPIRIT DAYS” at Christ Church Preschool! You can wear your CCP shirts or wear your class color - YELLOW Ducks, BLUE Whales, RED Ladybugs, GREEN Frogs. WE LOVE CCP!! (A special thanks to Carolyn Ziemer for organizing our shirt sales again this year!!) We will have another spirit day in the spring, too. (Of course, you can wear your CCP apparel anytime!)

CONSCIOUS DISCIPLINE TIP #1 - COMPOSURE - Let’s remember that, as adults, it is our job to be sure we are calm and composed before we approach our child to discipline (teach) them. The best way to do this is to take 3 deep belly breaths (we tend to hold our breath when we are stressed) and affirm to yourself, “I am breathing. I am safe. I can handle this.” Then think, “What do I want my child TO DO?’ Then calmly tell your child, in a positive and assertive voice, what you want them to do. Stay focused on what TO DO. This method will avoid all the negatives, like “don’t” & “stop,” and you will find your child is often more cooperative.

CONSCIOUS DISCIPLINE TIP #2 - Becky Bailey tells us, "Discipline and punishment are two different things.  Discipline, based in love, is consistent and focuses on cooperation.  Discipline sets expectations and helps find solutions to problems.  Punishment is based on fear and focuses on intimidation, threats or bribes."  To learn more, you may visit www.consciousdiscipline.com. Dr. Bailey has a book, written especially for parents, that you can order called, “Easy to Love, Difficult to Discipline.”

Peace,

Shelly


Bonus Tidbits:

Always remind yourself that your track record for making it through your bad days is perfect.

Bonus, Bonus Tidbits (because it was left out last week 😄):

If something has a minor issue, repair it. Minor issues become major issues over time. Applies equally to love, friendships, health, and home.


Misbehavior OR Missing Skill?

Hello CCP Families,

We had our picture days this week and the sweetest smiles are on David Gellatly’s website. Most everyone enjoyed having their picture taken. We had a few who were just not ready to say cheese, but it’s okay because they will get another whack at it again in the spring when we’ll do it again! I have sent you all the link (and password) to David’s site to view and purchase your photos. Please let me know if you did not receive it.

And don’t forget, you are also invited to have a family photo taken on Saturday, Oct. 25. The photos will be outside in the church yard. Click here to sign up for a convenient time slot.

Ladybug pumpkin art

The following week has so many great opportunities for you! Hope you can join us for:

  • TRUNK OR TREAT - Sunday, Oct. 26 at 4:00 (correction from the 25th in last week’s blog, silly me! 😊) in the church office parking lot. Come in costume for games, candy, and fun!

  • HALLOWEEN - Just for fun, our Duck and Whale classes will parade in costume on the Market St sidewalks on Oct. 30. Parents are invited to walk with us if you’re able. Teachers will give you details.

    Our Ladybugs and Frogs will parade in costume indoors around Ascension Hall on Oct. 29 and Oct 30. Parents are invited to stay a few minutes after drop-off to watch if you’re able. Teachers will give you details.

  • FIRE TRUCK - The Chapel Hill Fire Dept. will bring their truck for a visit on Monday, November 3rd! (If you are in a T/Th class, please feel free to join us at 9:30 in Ascension Hall.) Usually the fire fighters show us how they look & sound when wearing all their gear. Then they take us, class by class, to look at the truck!

  • MomCo gathers on the 27th of October. Come, be seen and heard!

Please remember we currently have room for another 2year old (M/W) at CCP! Please send your friends our way.

CONSCIOUS DISCIPLINE MOMENT: “Missing or emerging executive skills are at the root of what we call ‘discipline problems.’ Historically, children have been punished for not having these skills at certain ages. When there is conflict, we can choose to see a misbehaving child OR we can choose to see a child who needs help to learn a skill.”

At CCP, we try to see a child who needs to learn a skill. For example, if a child grabs the red crayon from another child. We use the phrase, “YOU WANTED____” Here’s how it may sound….You wanted the red crayon. You may not grab. Hold out your hand and say, “May I use the red crayon when you’re finished?” Or for a younger child….You wanted the red crayon. You may not grab. Hold out your hand and say, “Red crayon, please.”


Cheers to all the skills we are ALL still learning!

Peace,

Shelly